Understanding Revelation 20: Satan and the lake of fire.
God’s Treasure Chest – Romans 10
Here are some of the treasures I discovered while reading and studying Romans chapter 10. I hope you’re encouraged!
Romans 10:5 says,
For Moses writes that the law’s way of making a person right with God requires obedience to all of its commands. (NLT)
This verse right here proves how impossible it would be for us to attempt to be justified by keeping the law. It also proves why there’s a whole bunch of frustrated Christians out there. I used to be one of them. It’s a dead end road.
Here are Andrew Wommack’s Living Commentary notes on this verse. You’re gonna love this. It will help you understand grace better.
“In Romans 10:5-9, Paul contrasted those who seek righteousness by the Law with those who seek the righteousness of God as a gift. Those who seek to earn righteousness through keeping the Law are consumed with “doing” (this verse), while those who receive righteousness by faith are simply confessing what has already been done (Romans 10:9).
This is a simple yet profound difference. If we are still “doing” acts of holiness to get God to move in our lives, then we are still operating under a “Law” mentality that is not faith (Galatians 3:12). When we simply believe and confess what has already been provided through Christ, that’s grace.
Those who are living under the Law and those who are living under grace should have very similar actions of holiness, but their motivations are completely opposite. Legalists have their attention on what they must do, while those living by faith have their attention on what Christ has already done for them.
For instance, the Scriptures teach us to confess with our mouths and believe with our hearts and we will receive from God (Romans 10:9-10 and Mark 11:23-24). Legalists think that means they can get God to heal them by confessing that by His stripes, they are healed. However, those who understand God’s grace will not confess the Word to get healed. They will confess that by His stripes, they are healed, because they really believe it has already been done.
Analyzing our mindsets is the simplest way of discerning whether we are operating in true Bible faith or a legalistic counterfeit. If the motive for our actions is to be accepted by God, then that’s legalism. If we live holy out of faith and gratefulness for what God has already done, then that’s grace.”
Referring back to paragraph #4 here in Andrew’s notes, I was one of those people who had made confession (confessing God’s Word) into a work.
I was taught the importance of confessing God’s Word growing up and it wasn’t taught to me in a legalistic way, but because of my own personality I approached almost everything in my life from a ‘works’ standpoint. I turned almost everything into a law.
As a result of this, I recall that during the beginning of my grace journey 3.5 years ago God had to show me that I had actually gotten into fear in this area of confession and had been wrongly believing that if I didn’t confess the Word (speak my confessions) everyday, I was not going to be blessed.
Again, I DEFINITELY believe in the power of confessing God’s Word and I have a list of declarations that I speak, but now I speak them when the Holy Spirit prompts me to speak them and I don’t feel like if I miss a day, or a week, that my life is going to fall apart.
As Andrew stated above, when a person is caught up in legalism, their motive for doing what they do is totally different.
Now that I live my life by God’s awesome grace, I actually find myself speaking God’s Word on a regular basis in addition to speaking out my list of declarations when the Spirit prompts me to do so, but there is no fear involved at all of something bad happening or me not being blessed because I haven’t confessed God’s Word today.
Here’s what made the difference for me. When I really grasped the truth that God’s grace is His unmerited, unearned, undeserved favor I stopped believing for His favor only when I had done all the right things or based on my good works (such as confessing the Word) and began to believe for and receive His grace (unmerited favor) solely based on what Jesus has already done for me through His finished work. I finally got the revelation that grace is based on Him, not me.
This my friend, is why I have fallen so deeply in love with Jesus that I now work harder for Him (do more good works) than I ever did while trying to live my Christian life under the law. This is why I spend practically every waking moment receiving His grace afresh for myself and why I love helping others (including my own kids) understand how His grace works, practically, in their everyday lives… if they will only receive it!
Romans 10:13 says,
For “Everyone who calls on the name of the LORD will be saved.” (NLT)
I just LOVE this verse! That all!
Romans 10:14 says,
But how can they call on Him to save them unless they believe in Him? And how can they believe in Him if they have never heard about Him? And how can they hear about Him unless someone tells them? (NLT)
Do you know that there are many people who go to church every Sunday that aren’t hearing the true gospel – the gospel of grace. I just had a girl tell me yesterday how frustrating it is that she cannot seem to find a church in her little town. There are plenty of churches there, but the ones that she has visited are all steeped in religion (rules and regulations).
She hasn’t had success finding one yet where the pastor simply preaches Jesus and how having a living, vibrant relationship with Jesus can transform her life. She said all the churches that she has visited have strong religious mindsets and she feels judged by so many within those circles. I felt so sorry for her and reminded her that this is not how Jesus is. I am also agreeing with her in prayer that she will find just the right church that she can call home, where Jesus is exalted and where the pastor sets her eyes on Jesus every single week instead of giving her a list of 10 new rules to follow.
Romans 10:15 says,
And how will anyone go and tell them without being sent? That is why the Scriptures say, “How beautiful are the feet of messengers who bring good news!” (NLT)
Notice, the scriptures do not say, ‘How beautiful are the feet of messengers who bring bad news.’ It says this is true of those who bring good news.
It doesn’t even say, ‘How beautiful are the feet of messengers who mix bad news with good news in an effort to be balanced.’ (and this goes for all of us because we are all called to be bearers of this amazingly good news)
The true gospel, which is the gospel of grace, doesn’t need to be balanced. It’s the gospel. It’s about Jesus. It’s Jesus plus nothing. It’s the good news because when we really understand it and believe it, we fall in love with Jesus so deeply that we then end up doing everything else we should be doing as a Christian out of a spirit of love rather than works. Of course this doesn’t mean we’re going to be perfect in our actions because this Christian walk is a journey, but as we continue to grow in God’s grace, right actions follow.
Look at this:
Romans 13:10 says,
Love does no wrong to a neighbor; therefore love is the fulfillment of the law. (NASB)
Yes, yes, yes! This is what happens when a person is taught the true gospel of grace and they come to understand that, in fact, Jesus is grace. He is God’s grace personified. When they come to the revelation that it’s all Jesus, this amazing Grace changes their heart from the inside out and they begin to walk in love and do what they do out of love for people like never before. I am a witness to this and I know that many of you are too.
Every person I come in contact with who has really grasped a revelation of God’s grace cannot be quiet about it. It’s impossible. They simply cannot stop talking about Jesus and they want everyone, everywhere to know this good news!
Romans 10:17 says,
So faith comes from hearing, that is, hearing the Good News about Christ. (NLT)
See here, we have to be hearing the good news about Jesus for faith to come. This is why it is critically important for people to find a church where the pastor sets their eyes on Jesus and what He has already done for them through His finsihed work on the cross instead of focusing their attention on themselves and what they need to do. Their doing (good works) will naturally flow from their right believing about Christ!
Next God’s Treasure Chest post will be on Romans 11.
To find all my other God’s Treasure Chest posts just click here on My Grace Journey and then scroll down to the topic that says God’s Treasure Chest!
If you have not yet made Jesus your Savior and received the wonderful joy that His finished working the cross has provided for you to live in, please visit my page here titled Jesus In The Driver’s Seat. On this page I explain the good news of the gospel and you will have the opportunity to pray a prayer of salvation, making Jesus your Savior! Jesus loves you and His arms are wide open!
Sandra McCollom
FREE Report Reveals…The 5 (Dirt Cheap) Tools I Use To Create All My Videos
I know you have something that you’re passionate about…
You have a message in you – a unique voice – that if not shared with the world, we’re missing out.
In other words, we need to hear you!
There are countless ways to share your words, to make a difference in people’s lives.
For instance, through personal conversations, social media, small groups, sermons, seminars, books, blogs, emails, podcasting, etc.
Another – really EFFECTIVE – way to communicate is video.
Don’t you think?
Check out this video to see what I’m talking about:
Spreading your message fast and far is within your reach, AND it has never been easier (and cheaper) then right now to make your own high quality videos.
I started to make videos because I wanted to share what I was passionate about:
- Identity (who you are)
- Inheritance (what you have)
- Influence (what you can do)
Please note, I’m NOT a tech sevvy…so if I can do it, you certainly can do it!
Without leaving your house you can record and publish your message in a matter of a few minutes for the whole world to enjoy…for decades…think about that…imagine the impact you can have!
So I’ve created a report for you.
This report reveals…
“The 5 (dirt cheap) tools I use to create all my videos (Including my $68 dollar HD video camera).”
If you’ve already had the idea of video-making I trust this report will help you get started quick.
Also, if you’ve had the desire to share your story and knowledge but suppressed it or never seriously thought about using the means of video, I hope this report will stir you up to take action if it’s something you feel you’re suppose to do.
Enough introduction…
Click on the button below to download your FREE report.
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Later Gator,
Bas
FREE Report Reveals…The 5 (Dirt Cheap) Tools I Use To Create All My Videos
I know you have something that you’re passionate about…
You have a message in you – a unique voice – that if not shared with the world, we’re missing out.
In other words, we need to hear you!
There are countless ways to share your words, to make a difference in people’s lives.
For instance, through personal conversations, social media, small groups, sermons, seminars, books, blogs, emails, podcasting, etc.
Another – really EFFECTIVE – way to communicate is video.
Don’t you think?
Check out this video to see what I’m talking about:
Spreading your message fast and far is within your reach, AND it has never been easier (and cheaper) then right now to make your own high quality videos.
I started to make videos because I wanted to share what I was passionate about:
- Identity (who you are)
- Inheritance (what you have)
- Influence (what you can do)
Please note, I’m NOT a tech sevvy…so if I can do it, you certainly can do it!
Without leaving your house you can record and publish your message in a matter of a few minutes for the whole world to enjoy…for decades…think about that…imagine the impact you can have!
So I’ve created a report for you.
This report reveals…
“The 5 (dirt cheap) tools I use to create all my videos (Including my $68 dollar HD video camera).”
If you’ve already had the idea of video-making I trust this report will help you get started quick.
Also, if you’ve had the desire to share your story and knowledge but suppressed it or never seriously thought about using the means of video, I hope this report will stir you up to take action if it’s something you feel you’re suppose to do.
Enough introduction…
Click on the button below to download your FREE report.
Trouble downloading? Click HERE.
Later Gator,
Bas
Are You Obeying God?
Do you want to obey God?
Do you think you’re doing a good job of obeying him?
If you think you’re not doing a good job of obeying God, how do you define obedience?
I would guess that all Christ followers want to obey God but often times we feel like we fall short. This is true for various reasons but one overwhelming reason we feel we’re not obeying God is due to a wrong understanding of obedience.
Look at the Hebrew and Greek definitions of obey:
shama – Hebrew – to hear, to listen, to obey
hypakouō – Greek – to listen, to harken, to submit to
peithō – Greek – to be persuaded, to trust, to have confidence, believe, to listen, to suffer one’s self to be persuaded
The focus is listening and being persuaded. To obey God is to be persuaded of and confidently act on what he has said.
Yes, obedience does have an element of submission but it starts in the heart, where we truly believe. If you have put your trust in Christ as your righteousness then you have obeyed God at the deepest level of obedience. From there, we are to remain confident in his finished work to the point that we are continually submitted to the transformative power of his spirit, which is the very essence of GRACE.
If you want to be obedient to your Heavenly Father, first and foremost do whatever it takes to be fully confident of what Jesus has done for you. In every situation you face in life, persuade yourself of the victory that Jesus has already won and shares with you.
Peithō also happens to be the root word of faith (pistis). Faith is not a commodity that you need to figure out how to get more of to be more spiritual. Faith is something that grows as you are persuaded of what God has done through Jesus and promised in his Word. Jesus says that all things are possible to the one who believes. The more confident you are in him, the more you believe and the more anything becomes possible for you.
Are you actively persuading yourself of your victory in Jesus?
Are you intentionally placing confidence in God’s promises?
What does it take for your heart to be grounded in his truth?
Take 3 minutes and watch this encouraging video. Share it with you friends when you’re done. Below is a free full length teaching on this topic for those who like more detail.
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Did God Make a Mistake When He Gave Man a Will?
Anger Management
Do you struggle with anger? I had a bad temper for many years. I would explode over the littlest things at times. Something I’ve learned on my grace journey over this past 3.5 years is that it’s impossible to get free from a problem if you don’t know what’s causing the problem. After all, I […]
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Don’t Be the Devil’s Star Witness
Have you ever been blamed or accused of something that you didn’t do? It’s a terrible feeling. Even if we did do something wrong, when someone points that out often times we are hit with shame and regret. It’s never a good feeling.
Yet, we so often times are quick to blame or accuse others. Many times we do this without even having all the facts. It’s just so easy to cast blame upon someone else.
There is always the opportunity to be an accuser or an advocate.
In the Bible, we are introduced to a character that uses blame, accusation and scapegoating all the time. He is known as Satan, or the devil. The word Satan is not really a name, it’s a title. In the Hebrew it is ha-satan – the satan. The word satan simply means adversary or accuser. To the Jewish people it was used as a term for anyone that stood in opposition to someone else. The ancient Israelites didn’t believe ha-satan to be a fallen angel. They believed that he was a messenger of God, used by God to give humans an opposition that would allow them to choose good or evil.
I believe that the New Testament gives us a more detailed view of the satan, and shows us that he is evil, purely bent on destroying the lives of humanity. Most Christians today believe that he was once an angel who rebelled against God, because he wanted to be God. God kicked him out of heaven, and for reasons beyond the time constraints of this blog, he now has access to earth and to humanity.
His primary tools against humanity are blame, accusation and scapegoating. He accuses people before God continually. He is always reminding God of the wrongs, sins, mistakes, iniquities and just general bad behavior that we human beings engage in.
And the great dragon was thrown down, the serpent of old who is called the devil and Satan,
who deceives the whole world; he was thrown down to the earth, and his angels were thrown down with him. Then I heard a loud voice in heaven, saying, “Now the salvation, and the power, and the kingdom of our God and the authority of His Christ have come, for the accuser of our brethren has been thrown down, he who accuses them before our God day and night. (Rev. 12:9-10, emphasis mine)
It’s interesting that the blame and scapegoating game got its start with the very first sin of humanity. When Adam and Eve were questioned about eating the forbidden fruit (Gen. 2), Adam starts off by blaming God and Eve.
This woman that you gave me. Adam did not take responsibility for his actions; he blamed his wife. Eve blamed the serpent , which she actually had a little more ground to stand on with this because the serpent did, in fact, deceive her. She believed the lie. Adam, in my opinion, knew better and should have stood up and said no.
Blame, accusation and scapegoating. It’s always someone else’s fault.
It’s so easy to blame others. It seems that we human beings need things to make sense, and the easiest way for that to happen in a senseless situation is to simply blame someone. At least now we have a reason for something bad happening. It’s someone else’s fault.
This is so prevalent in America. To the conservatives, the liberals are to blame for all of our country’s woes. To the liberals, the conservatives are to blame for standing in the way of progress.
At the time of this writing, guns are to blame for all of the mass shootings that have been happening. Yet, to the gun owners and gun rights advocates, those opposed to guns are the problem.
In churches, people tend to blame the pastor or church leaders when things go wrong, while the pastor and church leaders tend to blame the people for not being committed enough.
Husbands blame wives for things wrong in their marriage. Wives blame their husbands. On and on it goes.
When we use accusation, blame and scapegoating, we become the satan to the one the we are accusing, blaming or scapegoating. We actually side in with the devil.
In a way, we become the devil’s star witness when we seek to
accuse and blame others. (Tweet this)
As the satan is accusing us before God, and we are accusing and blaming others, the satan could easily say, “See, even their fellow human being, their fellow Christian brother/sister says the same thing.”
God wants us to be an advocate for one another. Since we all understand what it’s like to have limitations, frailties, weaknesses, temptations and sins, we should be the most graceful to one another. Yet, many times, we are not graceful but judgmental.
When it comes to people being accused before God I would rather stand there in someone’s defense, even if they are wrong, than to be the one accusing them. When I stand there in their defense, I am acting like Jesus, our Advocate. But when I stand there in accusation, I am acting like the satan, our accuser.
Jesus stands between the accusers and the accused.
He did it for the woman caught in adultery in John 8. In this story the accusers were right that, under the Law of Moses, the woman was to be stoned because she had committed adultery. It was a capital offense.
The crowd had truth on their side. This woman had been caught in the very act (where was the man?).
They had the stones in their hands. But Jesus didn’t go along with the crowd. Honestly, most of the time, the crowd is wrong!
Jesus reminds them of their own sin in a most interesting way. As they all leave, he turns to her and asks where her accusers are. She replies that she does not know because they all walked away.
“Neither do I accuse you!” Jesus replies. What an awesome statement. The very one that could accuse her. The very one that could have given her a lecture on the sinfulness of her ways does no such thing. Most Christians tend to focus on the “go and sin no more” statement (which is important), but I like to focus on the fact that Jesus didn’t accuse or condemn her.
In this very situation, to have sided in with the crowd would have made you part of the accusers, the satans.
To accuse, blame and scapegoat makes us the satan’s star witness.
Discover How To Prevent Condemnation And Live In Joyful Freedom
Are you ready for a 30.000 feet overview that will help you live in joyful freedom?
First this…
Even though as believers we are not under law but under grace, we still have the effects of our old life under the law imprinted in our minds – that is a law mindset.
A law mindset is an old way of thinking that causes you to rely on your performance to make things happen.
Instead of relying on the indwelling life of Christ:
- You strive to become what you already are
- You seek to find what you already possess
- You try to measure up you when you already do
- You try to cross a divide that isn’t there
- You ask God to do what He’s already done
In short, you try to re-accomplish what Christ already has accomplished on your behalf.
A law mindset causes you to sin, make you feel condemned and gives you a sense you’re never doing enough.
Talking about frustration!
The moment you choose to believe the Gospel of Grace, however, you’ll experience REST, JOY, and FREEDOM.
To experience joyful freedom we need to be able to discern law from grace.
I’m going to give you a 30.000 feet overview so that you can sharply discern what is Old Covenant thinking and what is New Covenant thinking.
Here are 101 simple comparisons between the Old and New.
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I wish you nothing less than joy, happiness, and freedom in your Christian walk!
Alongside,
Bas
Information VS Instruction
Believers have the mind of Christ. Our problem is not a lack of information. Our problem isn’t even a lack of “spiritual” information.
I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know his master’s business. Instead, I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you. John 15:15
Did you catch that? Jesus has revealed EVERYTHING to you that he learned from his father!!!
You don’t need more information, Jesus has already taught you everything you need to know by giving you a new heart when you were born again. You need wisdom and instruction to apply what you know.
Wisdom is less about information and more about a way of seeing. The wise are able to shift their lens to God’s perspective. Christ’s finished work is the lens of God’s point of view. In Christ we are complete, lack no thing, have all blessings, have all sufficiency and are righteous before the Father. These are spiritual truths that God is seeking to establish in our physical and emotional lives. His spirit is continually instructing us in the application of wisdom but many times we are too distracted by our focus on the world to be in agreement with His wisdom.
Our “task” as believers is to yield to God’s inner influence (grace) and allow his wisdom and truth to shift our inner environment to Heaven’s environment. Heaven’s atmosphere is righteousness, peace and joy.
Wisdom isn’t necessarily information on what we’re supposed to do but rather an acknowledgement of what we are (in him). Wisdom is a manifestation in our hearts, minds and souls that brings us into agreement with God’s perspective of the world, our lives and our specific circumstances. Heaven says there’s enough grace to overcome temptation, Heaven says there’s more than enough provision to meet that need, Heaven says the blessing you think you lack is present in Christ who is in you. Wisdom will teach your mind to be in agreement with Heaven’s state of existence which will change the way you see your world.
When wisdom bears fruit:
- those situations that seem impossible become possible
- You’re reminded of God’s promises
- you’re reminded of Christ’s finished work
- you make decisions from victory
- you speak things that are spiritually true
- fear is not an option
- lack doesn’t drive you
- money is not the thing you think about the most
- and the list goes on… (what would you add)
We know what Jesus knows. The problem is we don’t always know how to apply of walk in the truth that he’s revealed to us. God says we can ask for wisdom and he’ll give it to us. Wisdom is not information, it’s a way of seeing situations through God’s eyes. You then need proper instruction to walk our truth. Make sure you’re not confusing instruction for information. You have enough information, seek instruction.
Godly instruction comes form many places but if you start from a place of completeness in Christ, then you can apply good instruction within the physical world to see success and fruit. Instruction is not works, just healthy principles to adhere to as we live life. Applying principles do not make God move or release blessings, they simply line up your thoughts and actions with your spirit so you’re not hindering the increase of the kingdom in your life.
Find good instruction and be diligent to move forward from a place of victory and completeness in Christ.
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When Being Right Makes You Wrong.
I hate being wrong. I imagine that most people do. I have a funny little saying that I have used in the past that reflects my hatred of being wrong. It goes like this: “I am never wrong; I once thought I was but I was mistaken.” Cute, right? For a t-shirt maybe, but that attitude in real life can get me in a lot of trouble with those that know when I am wrong.
So yes, I like being right. But I am not always right. There are times when it is more important that I understand another person’s perspective, or reasons, than it is for me to be right. When I value being right over being loving then I am wrong, even though I may be right.
There have been times where I was right in a disagreement but I apologized in order to keep peace.
There have been times when I was right in my reasons, decision and actions, but took the blame in order to keep someone else from being shamed.
Unfortunately, there have been more times when I was determined to be right than to be understanding or loving.
I am always tempted to defend my desire to be right. But, my desire to be right can never overpower my need to understand.
America today is probably more divided over issues than I can ever remember in my lifetime. It seems to me that the more we travel through time, the more divided we get. We are divided over abortion, gay marriage, gun rights, taxes, illegal immigrants, and the list goes on. While I would expect our two party political system to be divided over issues, what I don’t expect is the deepness of that divide. The reason for the divide, in my opinion, is people’s deep desire to be right over the need to understand.
The same division is in the Church. It’s probably worse in the Church. Jesus’ prayer was that we would be one (John 17). It seems to be that we are not one but hugely splintered. Most of the divisions we use to divide ourselves are really stupid and insignificant. It goes back to our desire to be right rather than understand.
We don’t give people room to explore and journey in their faith. We don’t give people room to question and struggle with their issues. We don’t make room for conversations. Conversations make way for understanding.
For most Christians, everything is a black and white issue. You are either right or wrong. Being wrong often times will bring isolation, rejection and judgment.
On the other end of that yardstick are those that say you can do whatever you want and you’ll still be okay with God. That is not correct either. God’s grace enables me not to sin! It does not give me a license to sin.
Please don’t read what I am not saying. There is a right way to live. There are right doctrines to believe. There is a wrong way of thinking and living.
What I am saying is that it’s not my job to pounce on people with the rightness or wrongness of what they are doing. It’s my job to seek to understand them as a person, what they have been through, and to be an advocate. It’s my responsibility to listen to their story.
There are always opportunities to be an advocate or an accuser.
An advocate seeks to speak on behalf of a person out of understanding that person. An accuser will always want to focus on what you did wrong and why they are right.
I can’t help someone if I don’t understand someone. I can’t understand them if I am only seeking to be right.
Jesus Understands!
There are many things that I love about Jesus but one thing in particular is the fact that He understands us as human beings. He has walked in our shoes. He has faced our limitations and our temptations. He can sympathize with us because He’s been where we are.
For we do not have a high priest who is unable to empathize with our weaknesses, but we have one who has been tempted in every way, just as we are—yet he did not sin. 16 Let us then approach God’s throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need. (Heb. 4:15-16)
Because Jesus became a human, lived as a human and experienced humanity in its fullness, he can certainly understand why we struggle. He was totally right when he lived on the earth. He didn’t do anything wrong. Yet, he was crucified. He could have brought down legions of angels and proven to them that he was right, but he didn’t ever exercise that right.
Jesus came to be one of us therefore he understands us. So, now, even when we sin and we are wrong, Jesus gives us grace and mercy because He always understands where we are and why we do what we do. That doesn’t excuse our behavior, nor does it get us out of the consequences of our actions. What it does do, is show us that God has made a way for us to get the help, grace and mercy we need, even though we were wrong in our actions, because he understands why we did what we did.
This is a valuable lesson for me to learn as a parent. I can try to argue my point of “rightness” with my children over an issue, or I can seek to understand them when there is a disagreement or a rule violation.
The same is true in pastoring. I can counsel a person on the rightness/wrongness of their particular situation, or I can seek to understand their perspective and why they are doing what they are doing.
I am not saying that we should never tell people where they are missing it, messing up or even tell them that they are wrong. What I am saying is that in doing so, I must first seek to understand before I make a big deal over being right.
Being right is such a powerful drug in our lives. Have you ever said to someone, “I told you so.” Didn’t that feel good? It feels really good when you say that to someone that is rarely wrong. And it feels really good when you tell that to someone who thinks they are never wrong. There is just something intoxicating about being right.
But even a demonic spirit can be right about something. A wrong spirit can say the right thing.
When you seek to understand you are putting the other person first. You can never go wrong by humbling yourself to put someone else first!
May we seek first to understand before we seek to be right.
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