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With all due respect for the current emphasis on women's equality and appreciation, it’s time for men to rise to their calling. Much has been written about how the role of husbands and fathers has been culturally ridiculed for decades. (Think: Dagwood and Blondie or All In The Family with Archie.) But men can no longer hide behind victimization. It is time to Man Up.
I realize that such phraseology is not politically correct. Some will immediately accuse me of misogyny. Go ahead if you must, but the deplorable state of current masculinity compels me to continue. It is no wonder young boys have trouble determining what men are like. When political leaders spurn civil dialogue to demean opponents with name-calling like first graders, what's a boy to think? When male athletic heroes express themselves in terms of abuse toward women, or when they display unhindered unabashed ego in shamelessly promoting themselves, real men are embarrassed.
Then there is the effort by some to redefine masculinity in terms of passivity and ill-defined meekness. Often fashion tries to hide masculine identity under a unisex look. Reacting to such obvious attempts, some have resorted to crudeness and barbaric behavior. Vulgarity and shameless machismo have nothing to do with real masculinity. I could go on about how so many men have disqualified themselves in the church, and abandoned spirituality to the care of women, but the point is made. It is time to Man Up.
Being a man myself, I have a special interest in genuine masculinity. If there is a right way to be a man I want to know it. I have read varied opinions discussing whether or not there is any real difference (other than obvious biological ones) in masculinity and femininity, and have concluded that unless one has already decided what they want to believe, there is compelling evidence that men and women are distinctly different while sharing a common life in equality.
Of course the best selling book of all times tells us that in the first few pages:
Then God said, "Let us make man in our image, after our likeness; and let them have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the birds of the air, and over the cattle, and over all the earth, and over every creeping thing that creeps upon the earth." So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them. Genesis 1:26-27 ("Man" is used in a generic sense as the context makes clear.)
In fact, the Bible tells the time-proven story about a personal God who created, out of love, a world that has order. Everything in creation has both value and purpose. In His crowning act of creation, He created male and female in such a way that their differences would both attract them to each other and complete each other. Masculinity and femininity are designed to complement each other, not compete. Since God loves, He created mankind to love. He gave them roles that matched their design. Peace reigned as long as they lived according to their creator's design.
As the story develops, the male and female chose to reject His design and the resulting disorder infected the human race as well as the creation they were to manage. It wasn't a design flaw. It was the human choice to reject God's design that proved to be the culprit. Those today still trying to address the human dilemma by ignoring the original design are as misguided as Adam and Eve.
It is revealed in the Genesis account that Adam was given the responsibility to "keep the garden." That meant he was to guard it, protect it, and develop it. He along with Eve had God-given authority over all the creatures, yet when a serpent suggested they should not trust God, Adam did not forbid him, nor protect his wife. He did not "man-up." It is history's first example of masculinity letting the whole race down.
We have seen it many times since, and today it is alarmingly evident. We have all read or heard of the rampant fatherlessness in our society. It is reported that some communities have more than 70 percent of the children growing up without a father in their lives. Millions of single moms struggle to "keep their gardens," while irresponsible men walk away. In their absence young men and women are left wondering what men are like.
I would lead you astray if I didn't mention that as the story continues, there was another "Adam" who confronted the enemy in the wilderness and chose to do whatever was necessary to redeem what Adam had forfeited. He gave His life for His bride and made it possible for all of us to live by His design. (See 1 Cor. 15:42-50; Romans 5:12-21.)
The apostle Paul in his closing remarks to the church in Corinth exhorts them to "act like men." (Man-up is a close translation in today's vernacular) Of course he is writing to both sexes, but they obviously knew what it meant to act like men. Real men act a certain way. I would be afraid to write that to the church today. With such confusion about masculinity, there is no telling what behavior would result if the readers tried to comply.
Be on the alert, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong. Let all that you do be done in love. (1 Cor. 16:13-14, NASB)
The surrounding statements in this text help to explain what was meant by "act like men." They are alert to what might threaten those under their care. They stand firm, refusing to bend to the pressures of culture that seek to minimize faith and faithfulness. They are willing to confront and forbid those destroying influences trying to invade their garden of responsibility. They know the true nature of their enemy and fight with weapons that are effective. Above all, they act in love. This precludes and dismisses all the facades of masculinity that have crept into our culture. There is no place for manipulation, domination, or condemnation in true strength. It is the weak man who tries to bully his way to the top. Real men are meek but they aren't weak. They don't have anything to prove; just their "garden" to keep. They lead by serving and serve by leading when leadership is demanded. Un-intimidated by voices that seek to disqualify and accuse, they have something grand to live for and someone they will die for.
The family begs for this kind of man. Contrary to Hollywood hype, women long for such men. The church suffers from the lack of such men. Society will die if men don't Man Up.
I recall the basics of an instance that occurred in our second pastorate in Western Australia. An English couple had started attending the church with their children. One Sunday morning before the service started, I was astonished to see the husband almost carrying in his wife and setting her down on the pew in the… Read More
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Here are some of the treasures I discovered while reading and studying Romans chapter 10. I hope you’re encouraged!
Romans 10:5 says,
For Moses writes that the law’s way of making a person right with God requires obedience to all of its commands. (NLT)
This verse right here proves how impossible it would be for us to attempt to be justified by keeping the law. It also proves why there’s a whole bunch of frustrated Christians out there. I used to be one of them. It’s a dead end road.
Here are Andrew Wommack’s Living Commentary notes on this verse. You’re gonna love this. It will help you understand grace better.
“In Romans 10:5-9, Paul contrasted those who seek righteousness by the Law with those who seek the righteousness of God as a gift. Those who seek to earn righteousness through keeping the Law are consumed with “doing” (this verse), while those who receive righteousness by faith are simply confessing what has already been done (Romans 10:9).
This is a simple yet profound difference. If we are still “doing” acts of holiness to get God to move in our lives, then we are still operating under a “Law” mentality that is not faith (Galatians 3:12). When we simply believe and confess what has already been provided through Christ, that’s grace.
Those who are living under the Law and those who are living under grace should have very similar actions of holiness, but their motivations are completely opposite. Legalists have their attention on what they must do, while those living by faith have their attention on what Christ has already done for them.
For instance, the Scriptures teach us to confess with our mouths and believe with our hearts and we will receive from God (Romans 10:9-10 and Mark 11:23-24). Legalists think that means they can get God to heal them by confessing that by His stripes, they are healed. However, those who understand God’s grace will not confess the Word to get healed. They will confess that by His stripes, they are healed, because they really believe it has already been done.
Analyzing our mindsets is the simplest way of discerning whether we are operating in true Bible faith or a legalistic counterfeit. If the motive for our actions is to be accepted by God, then that’s legalism. If we live holy out of faith and gratefulness for what God has already done, then that’s grace.”
Referring back to paragraph #4 here in Andrew’s notes, I was one of those people who had made confession (confessing God’s Word) into a work.
I was taught the importance of confessing God’s Word growing up and it wasn’t taught to me in a legalistic way, but because of my own personality I approached almost everything in my life from a ‘works’ standpoint. I turned almost everything into a law.
As a result of this, I recall that during the beginning of my grace journey 3.5 years ago God had to show me that I had actually gotten into fear in this area of confession and had been wrongly believing that if I didn’t confess the Word (speak my confessions) everyday, I was not going to be blessed.
Again, I DEFINITELY believe in the power of confessing God’s Word and I have a list of declarations that I speak, but now I speak them when the Holy Spirit prompts me to speak them and I don’t feel like if I miss a day, or a week, that my life is going to fall apart.
As Andrew stated above, when a person is caught up in legalism, their motive for doing what they do is totally different.
Now that I live my life by God’s awesome grace, I actually find myself speaking God’s Word on a regular basis in addition to speaking out my list of declarations when the Spirit prompts me to do so, but there is no fear involved at all of something bad happening or me not being blessed because I haven’t confessed God’s Word today.
Here’s what made the difference for me. When I really grasped the truth that God’s grace is His unmerited, unearned, undeserved favor I stopped believing for His favor only when I had done all the right things or based on my good works (such as confessing the Word) and began to believe for and receive His grace (unmerited favor) solely based on what Jesus has already done for me through His finished work. I finally got the revelation that grace is based on Him, not me.
This my friend, is why I have fallen so deeply in love with Jesus that I now work harder for Him (do more good works) than I ever did while trying to live my Christian life under the law. This is why I spend practically every waking moment receiving His grace afresh for myself and why I love helping others (including my own kids) understand how His grace works, practically, in their everyday lives… if they will only receive it!
Romans 10:13 says,
For “Everyone who calls on the name of the LORD will be saved.” (NLT)
I just LOVE this verse! That all!
Romans 10:14 says,
But how can they call on Him to save them unless they believe in Him? And how can they believe in Him if they have never heard about Him? And how can they hear about Him unless someone tells them? (NLT)
Do you know that there are many people who go to church every Sunday that aren’t hearing the true gospel – the gospel of grace. I just had a girl tell me yesterday how frustrating it is that she cannot seem to find a church in her little town. There are plenty of churches there, but the ones that she has visited are all steeped in religion (rules and regulations).
She hasn’t had success finding one yet where the pastor simply preaches Jesus and how having a living, vibrant relationship with Jesus can transform her life. She said all the churches that she has visited have strong religious mindsets and she feels judged by so many within those circles. I felt so sorry for her and reminded her that this is not how Jesus is. I am also agreeing with her in prayer that she will find just the right church that she can call home, where Jesus is exalted and where the pastor sets her eyes on Jesus every single week instead of giving her a list of 10 new rules to follow.
Romans 10:15 says,
And how will anyone go and tell them without being sent? That is why the Scriptures say, “How beautiful are the feet of messengers who bring good news!” (NLT)
Notice, the scriptures do not say, ‘How beautiful are the feet of messengers who bring bad news.’ It says this is true of those who bring good news.
It doesn’t even say, ‘How beautiful are the feet of messengers who mix bad news with good news in an effort to be balanced.’ (and this goes for all of us because we are all called to be bearers of this amazingly good news)
The true gospel, which is the gospel of grace, doesn’t need to be balanced. It’s the gospel. It’s about Jesus. It’s Jesus plus nothing. It’s the good news because when we really understand it and believe it, we fall in love with Jesus so deeply that we then end up doing everything else we should be doing as a Christian out of a spirit of love rather than works. Of course this doesn’t mean we’re going to be perfect in our actions because this Christian walk is a journey, but as we continue to grow in God’s grace, right actions follow.
Look at this:
Romans 13:10 says,
Love does no wrong to a neighbor; therefore love is the fulfillment of the law. (NASB)
Yes, yes, yes! This is what happens when a person is taught the true gospel of grace and they come to understand that, in fact, Jesus is grace. He is God’s grace personified. When they come to the revelation that it’s all Jesus, this amazing Grace changes their heart from the inside out and they begin to walk in love and do what they do out of love for people like never before. I am a witness to this and I know that many of you are too.
Every person I come in contact with who has really grasped a revelation of God’s grace cannot be quiet about it. It’s impossible. They simply cannot stop talking about Jesus and they want everyone, everywhere to know this good news!
Romans 10:17 says,
So faith comes from hearing, that is, hearing the Good News about Christ. (NLT)
See here, we have to be hearing the good news about Jesus for faith to come. This is why it is critically important for people to find a church where the pastor sets their eyes on Jesus and what He has already done for them through His finsihed work on the cross instead of focusing their attention on themselves and what they need to do. Their doing (good works) will naturally flow from their right believing about Christ!
Next God’s Treasure Chest post will be on Romans 11.
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If you have not yet made Jesus your Savior and received the wonderful joy that His finished working the cross has provided for you to live in, please visit my page here titled Jesus In The Driver’s Seat. On this page I explain the good news of the gospel and you will have the opportunity to pray a prayer of salvation, making Jesus your Savior! Jesus loves you and His arms are wide open!
Sandra McCollom